Expectations of children

by Kim neyer | more from this Blogger

2011 Jan 09 09: 44 PM

Do you already know how to after your child is? What maternity will and what will require? This is really as bad as some say people? This is really great as some people say? You will be successful and what it even means?

In reflecting Back on the prerequisites for the we are becoming a, I find that I was completely wrong on all accounts. I knew that I love my child, but the scale and scope and expected was completely covered by the reality. I love him a lot more than we ever dreamed. Is totally different kind of love. You can consume and erases the wrongs. Is able to do things never seen the case (like the touch poo?) and arranges the heart and priorities.

Also invalid and, in this I think I had to repeat it so much more control over the everyday situation and my child's behavior. It is true, you cannot make a child do anything, not even sleep (receipt that you can sleep baby authors!). And when the baby gets older, teaching them how to behave is a 24/7, very limited success. My theory is that they must hear toddler "not" about three hundred times before you actually stop trying to do something naughty. You constantly monitor them and redirect, correct, and to distract ... all day long. Some things you never saw coming. Sometimes it is the fault of the user (do not leave fired in plain sight or a toddler can eat cake) and sometimes there is no explanation (I never dreamed My toddler could give rise to its rufowka on the back of his diaper and smear it on the floor). Each day is a learning experience and I'm not sure who is more science: MOM or baby.

Maternity shows their weakness, but can also show you where you are strong. It will reveal the true priorities. You can discover what is important (may) and what can wait (floor wine). There is only so far as some people say, but also is just as great. Success is defined by the relationships you build with the children and they develop the character they grow to adulthood, although sometimes it may not be measured until far beyond the reaches adolescence.

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