When your husband does not Seem Excited

by Kim Neyer | More from this Blogger

23 Dec 2010 10: 28 AM

Primarily this is not a generalization of all people. I know many women who demonstrate many concern about their wife's pregnancy. But also I talked to many women who have expressed frustration over their husband's seeming lack of enthusiasm in pregnancy. They may be everything, but they are not as excited woman expects them, which of course gets wheels in the head and fairly quickly, it is satisfied, he really does not have yet to be a Dad. Then begins the drama.

Sometimes there are actual situations in which the husband in reality is not excited about pregnancy. There may be various reasons for this, including a pair of finance or the terms of pregnancy. He may also have to do with the children how para already. Suppose for the sake of this blog, however, that the husband is actually all about pregnancy and is its response that the wife has a problem with the problem has nothing to do with how he feels about the pregnancy; has everything to do with a wrong perception of how Guys support anything is impending.

Many of the Guys I know really live in the present, and include my husband. Usually really difficult for me to understand, but for years and had to have a handy way of thinking about the events in his life. It is not complicated; This is actually very simple. It does not reside on the things that you want to happen; It focuses on what is happening now. Pregnancy is a very "now" for women, for obvious reasons. However, for men, is to "happens happen." Concern with the definition, applicable to all celebration or anticipating the ceremony. Thanks to Guys like mine receives quite excited about what happens with them right away (as new large purchase or touchdown), but they don't get as excited about the things that will in the future. Just don't get it at this time, but my husband has not shown much concern about our marriage to morning big day and then was next to each other! He has not shown much concern about our pregnancy until he can sense our son, match, which was in the third quarter for the most part. Got really excited after our son was born.

If you are pregnant, and her husband does not seem very excited, talk to him about this. May have nothing to do with his feelings about the child. Perhaps simply is not enough "now" for him. Give it time and create opportunities for him to actually participate in pregnancy, it is considered, as it happens with him, too, and not only to the user.

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